Our Hotwives

Can I express my fantasy about Mrs and Mr WarmWife and their ongoing adventure?

I so do hope that MrsWW falls in love with this guy and MrWW accepts it and finds it to be the natural outcome of their mutual adventure.

Let me explain please:

They have had a very fulfilling and happy 14+ years of marriage, with a great sex life.

Obviously after 14 yrs they wanted more out of their lives and relationships. Thats why MrWW so consistently and doggedly worked on her to become a hotwife.

The first year and a half in the LS has enrichd their relationship at home and in bed. It has made them love and want each other more intensely, not less. MrWW has never expressed any angst and insecurity with the arrangement even when MrsWW has clearly expressed her bias and intense longing for her 'boyfriend". This means that at some level MrWW is very sure and secure about her and their marriage.

After about one and a half years things have settled into a pattern. Nothing new really.. except perhaps the occasional surprise like the last car encounter. Maybe anal at some future date.

MrsWW clearly wants to focus on this one BF without the hassle of going through the uncertain and time consuming search for newbies. Even when she finds a new guy she is usually not sure about the safety and comfort. Her bar has been set high with her BF and she doesn't want to settle for less. Particularly when she is getting the time and attention from that one BF.

MrsWW is clearly in a deeper relationship with the BF than FB or even FWB. Her preconscious mind wont allow her to probe further now that she has found him. That one guy in the car who surprised her great pussy eating was excellent LS material since he was cool with hubby participating. But Mrs WW tanked that. Why? BF re-established contact. And she became "monogamous"with him. Thats kinda "love".

Many couples cant handle this love thing coming in with FWBs and BFs. In these threads we have seen things go bad. But some couples live happily ever after with a BF in the mix, who the wife loves.

Outsiders cant advise on these things without knowing how things are inside the hearts and minds of the stakeholders. Will this spook MrWW? Will this threaten MrsWW's feeling of balance and safety? is it ok with the BF? Do the MR and the BF need to meet socially, in a non sexual context to discuss the future? Will MrWW hand over MrsWW to the BF as his woman? Will this give MrWW a huge cuck kick and let him realise that he is that kinda cuck? Will this really give MrsWW oen helluva kick and a different level of romantic happiness, she had never thought possible?

Having a loving, devoted and accepting cuck hubby at home and a new lover+BF outside? Spending weekends, going on short vacations.. generally going on dates? Will it bring out new cuck dimensions in MrWW to take a back seat as the man in her life and enjoy her being someone else's woman for some years?

Some years: After some time the following can happen-

MrsWW sees that outside bed, they have less in common that what it takes for a relationship. Once the "out of reach", rationed dimension changes into an always available situation, she may find the charm wearing off. She and MrWW resume their usual married life with lifelong memories.

A real relationship with him may lead to discovery of compatibility outside bed. It becomes a full on relationship and runs it course with age and situations in life.

MrWW one day feels its enough and demands MrsWW call it off. that angst adds more spice to their lives and they work things out after some turbulence.

Ahhhh we and our fantasies!

54321 wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 31, 2024 6:00 am

I'm missing Mrswarmwife

54321

Here I am, 54321! All is well. I’ve continued to see my boyfriend and can share some details soon. The sex has been really hot though. He never disappoints when it comes to fucking me senseless. Whether he’s on top, looking hot while he rams his cock deep inside me, or I’m on top, riding him while he smiles as he watches…its always mind blowing. Hubby got a sexy pic recently, but I just haven’t wanted to include him in my playtime with this guy. This is giving me pause and makes me think about looking for someone new again. I just kind of dread the process and inevitable disappointments.

Sandy691196, I love your fantasy of our situation.

This part that you wrote is very accurate…

” MrsWW clearly wants to focus on this one BF without the hassle of going through the uncertain and time consuming search for newbies. Even when she finds a new guy she is usually not sure about the safety and comfort. Her bar has been set high with her BF and she doesn't want to settle for less. Particularly when she is getting the time and attention from that one BF.”
I couldn’t have said it better myself.

As for the rest of it, I’ve entertained all the thoughts you’ve mentioned, from time to time. But just in a fantasy sense as I don’t worry this would ever get out of hand. I love my husband and our life too much to ever jeopardize it. Hubby is secure in that too. We are really intentional about limiting how often I see my boyfriend and it’s always just for sex. I feel like right now I absolutely have my cake and get to eat it too, and it’s pure bliss!!

Here I am, 54321!

The very words I longed to hear

Welcome back, mrswarmwife!

54321

mrswarmwife wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 04, 2024 7:21 pm

Sandy691196, I love your fantasy of our situation.

This part that you wrote is very accurate…

” MrsWW clearly wants to focus on this one BF without the hassle of going through the uncertain and time consuming search for newbies. Even when she finds a new guy she is usually not sure about the safety and comfort. Her bar has been set high with her BF and she doesn't want to settle for less. Particularly when she is getting the time and attention from that one BF.”
I couldn’t have said it better myself.

As for the rest of it, I’ve entertained all the thoughts you’ve mentioned, from time to time. But just in a fantasy sense as I don’t worry this would ever get out of hand. I love my husband and our life too much to ever jeopardize it. Hubby is secure in that too. We are really intentional about limiting how often I see my boyfriend and it’s always just for sex. I feel like right now I absolutely have my cake and get to eat it too, and it’s pure bliss!!

Thanks MrsWW.. I feel you. But..
But you feel me too.. right baby? I don't need to articulate it. You get what I mean. It's one hell of a trip. Playing on the edge.. What if.
That dark part at the boundaries of right and wrong, at the boundary of secure and heart thumping.
The part which gives meaning to getting up tomorrow. Otherwise.. since life is perfect and one has seen it all.. one might as well not get up tomorrow.

Btw, I as a married solo player, am in the market for a married GF... Someone I can fall in love with, and I do wanna get up tomorrow, smiling in anticipation.

(I am rather far away from you).

I have a question for MsWarmWife: It's a hypothetical really but I'd like your input as a Sex Goddess

All things being equal (endowment, performance, stamina, etc) What could a husband do to help "flip that switch" for his wife short of relinquishing her to other men to just let loose a little more between the two of them? Be it dressing a little sexier, or just being a little more uninhibited even just in private, to find that feminine confidence and to make space for her primal/carnal desires to run a little more free in daily life?

For example: Your story about meeting your lover for lunch to give him a BJ in the car. Before being "unleashed"....why had it never occurred to you put on a short skirt with no bra or panties and ask your husband to meet for lunch one day and give that to him?

Also wanted to comment on your statement about these things always having an expiration date. I can agree with you there, that was my experience in the past in my days consorting with married women. That why I finally have to give it up, so much energy and effort for something that was only ever going to be temporary. It's interesting to see a shift in this world though from when I was there with women just being cut loose to go date solo right from the start. Wasn't like that back in my day!

Sandy69,
It sounds like you communicated your fantasy for someone else. It is perfectly stated by Mrsww as to what they want and what is working for them.
A long list of your fantasies does nothing to add to their story.
They have it perfect. She loves her husband and then gets to fuck a guy who is newer and adds excitement to their lives. And as we all know, most things become less exciting as time goes on. Eventually she may want to change her FB. Situations and feelings change for two individuals who are not in a relationship. His situation could change, move for a job, maybe he becomes impotent.
So please don't hijack a great thread with your fantasy. Start your own story and thread.

I’ve continued to see my boyfriend and can share some details soon

I do hope so.

54321

After some time away, I thought I would give a little update. I had mentioned considering looking for someone new. My husband helped me search and I made the effort and met a guy. He was my type in most ways but I just wasn’t attracted to him. I think my intense attraction to my boyfriend has ruined me for anyone who isn't ridiculously sexy. I told my husband I tried and that I wanted to take a break from searching. He’s always gracious about it even though I know he wishes I would board the crazy train again like in my early days of being a hotwife. But it seems I’ve got a one track mind as I continue to have hot, primal sex with the man whose body I’ve become so familiar with….

It has never occurred to me before that I could love going down on a man as much as I do with my boyfriend. I actually crave having his cock in my mouth, on my tongue and in my throat. It’s now the fastest way to get me wet and ready to be fucked. I would have to say the last few times I’ve been with him have been very orally focused and it’s been incredibly erotic. I specifically like to be on my knees in front of him or having him over me. I really love feeling like a man is in charge and I’m just trying to be a good girl. It feels so naughty and sexy to submit to my lover in this way. This power dynamic is such an intense turn on for me….pleasing him and awaiting my reward…

mrswarmwife wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 05, 2024 6:31 pm

it seems I’ve got a one track mind as I continue to have hot, primal sex with the man whose body I’ve become so familiar with….

Yes I desire for my wife to have such sex as she is so controlled with me, and tame. Having one man she sees seems safer and better for my wife. Being with one man after another is a turn off for both of us.
Did you enjoy giving oral a lot with your husband or is it just focused on your boyfriend? My wife rarely gives me oral, so part of my fantasy is her desiring to give it to her boyfriend.

mrswarmwife - sometimes it may be better to have one good bf who totally rocks your world than a stable of new ones with whom you struggle to find an emotional connection.

mrswarmwife wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 05, 2024 7:04 pm

It has never occurred to me before that I could love going down on a man as much as I do with my boyfriend. I actually crave having his cock in my mouth, on my tongue and in my throat. It’s now the fastest way to get me wet and ready to be fucked. I would have to say the last few times I’ve been with him have been very orally focused and it’s been incredibly erotic. I specifically like to be on my knees in front of him or having him over me. I really love feeling like a man is in charge and I’m just trying to be a good girl. It feels so naughty and sexy to submit to my lover in this way. This power dynamic is such an intense turn on for me….pleasing him and awaiting my reward…

This post is amazing.
You, Mrs WW are a dream come true.
Thanks for sharing!

I am so glad to hear that you found your “ niche “, wishing you and Mr warm wife continued happiness in your adventure.

G

CuriousHusband91941 wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 05, 2024 11:10 pm

Did you enjoy giving oral a lot with your husband or is it just focused on your boyfriend? My wife rarely gives me oral, so part of my fantasy is her desiring to give it to her boyfriend.

Although I do enjoy giving my husband oral, it’s not the same. It’s definitely something unique to my boyfriend right now. However, I would love to find a way to bring this same level of “hot” to my marriage. I know my husband would really enjoy some “next level” blow jobs.

Whenwillshe wrote: ↑

Sun Oct 06, 2024 8:24 am

mrswarmwife wrote: ↑

Sat Oct 05, 2024 7:04 pm

It has never occurred to me before that I could love going down on a man as much as I do with my boyfriend. I actually crave having his cock in my mouth, on my tongue and in my throat. It’s now the fastest way to get me wet and ready to be fucked. I would have to say the last few times I’ve been with him have been very orally focused and it’s been incredibly erotic. I specifically like to be on my knees in front of him or having him over me. I really love feeling like a man is in charge and I’m just trying to be a good girl. It feels so naughty and sexy to submit to my lover in this way. This power dynamic is such an intense turn on for me….pleasing him and awaiting my reward…

This post is amazing.
You, Mrs WW are a dream come true.
Thanks for sharing!

Whenwillshe, I’m living the dream thanks to the love, trust and generosity of my husband! I still can’t believe it’s real at times.

venus-can99 wrote: ↑

Sun Oct 06, 2024 6:53 am

mrswarmwife - sometimes it may be better to have one good bf who totally rocks your world than a stable of new ones with whom you struggle to find an emotional connection.

Agreed! I think it’s just my nature, so I’m leaning into it.

Seekingmore12 wrote: ↑

Sun Oct 06, 2024 12:59 pm

I am so glad to hear that you found your “ niche “, wishing you and Mr warm wife continued happiness in your adventure.

G

I appreciate that G. Thank you!

Although I do enjoy giving my husband oral, it’s not the same. It’s definitely something unique to my boyfriend right now. However, I would love to find a way to bring this same level of “hot” to my marriage. I know my husband would really enjoy some “next level” blow jobs.

Him standing, you, knees on the carpet fellating him will definitely work. What makes that scenario so hot is that you are in such a submissive, worshipful position but at the same time, you hold all the power! So intense!

Tell us how it goes!

54321

Happy Friday! I took my sexy HotWife out to dinner then brought her home. She’s having a couple drinks (not a big drinker at all) and now dancing for me in a button down and panties. Perhaps I get to explore her new oral obsession. Still unlikely she will swallow for me, interestingly something she only does for her bf!

She’s my pretty little poison!

Mrwarmwife wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 11, 2024 4:50 pm

Happy Friday! I took my sexy HotWife out to dinner then brought her home. She’s having a couple drinks (not a big drinker at all) and now dancing for me in a button down and panties. Perhaps I get to explore her new oral obsession. Still unlikely she will swallow for me, interestingly something she only does for her bf!

She’s my pretty little poison!

Sounds like a very, very sexy evening for you both!

It's been much too long since we've posted. Things are going great, though surprisingly normal. Those of you that know, know. Ha!

I was on a work trip and when I returned I couldn't help but ask her a couple questions. I asked her, since I've been away and she's been pretty obsessed with sucking her BF's cock, I ask if maybe she could do it for me tonight since I've been away. And then I pushed the limit and said, maybe you could even swallow. Her response...oh gosh, that's much too tall an order. I may give you a bj, but I can't swallow for you. I wish you could hear the genuine and innocent voice she unknowingly used.

So, I made a cocktail, watched the news and went into the kitchen for a hug and kiss. She loves this type of affection. Then I whispered, I know "he" has been busy the last few weeks, I would love to make love to my beautiful sexy wife tonight. She purred lovingly. Maybe I could even take your sexy ass too!

Oops! That was too far. She replied, Sweetie, you know you can't do that and you definitely can't cum in me either. Only he can do that, he can do whatever he wants.

Mrwarmwife wrote: ↑

Fri Dec 13, 2024 2:01 pm

Oops! That was too far. She replied, Sweetie, you know you can't do that and you definitely can't cum in me either. Only he can do that, he can do whatever he wants.

Oh wow, what a situation how do you feel about certain acts being only allowed for her boyfriend? I'm not sure it would be something I could handle for more than a short time teasing.

Honestly, I think it's super hot! I just wish they could play more often. With life and busy schedules, it seems to be every few weeks. Though when they meet now, their time together is getting longer and longer.

I'm encouraging an additional friend for the new year! Or even a naughty vacation to Vegas!

Thank you for updating us!

54321